No Parenting Coach For Britney, Let Those Babies Cry
Contrary to earlier reports stating Britney Spears missed her first scheduled visitation with sons Sean Preston and Jayden James because of a faulty buzzer, as it turns out, Britney ignored the buzzer and let her boys sit in the car crying for 40 minutes. Why? Because she refused to be monitored by a parenting coach during the visit.
‘Cuz you know, she’s a great mom y’all. She don’t need no stinkin’ coachin’.
TMZ is reporting this incident as the true reason for the missed visit. Their story states:
We’re told Britney was well aware that her kids were coming at 10:00 AM. She had telephone conversations about it 10 minutes earlier. Britney’s big concern was that she didn’t want the parenting coach, who was in tow, to tell her how to interact with her kids.
So Brit’s solution was to not answer the buzzer, as her kids cried in front of the house and waited for 40 minutes before K-Fed’s bodyguard pulled the plug and returned home.
Britney has been told for a year that she needed help in raising her kids, but she has steadfastly refused to even get a proper nanny. Now the squeeze is on and she’s not responding.
And even though our sources say Britney will show for court as ordered on October 26, another source tells TMZ Britney has repeatedly said she would never attend a court hearing.
That’s really great. She doesn’t want to be monitored, so she’ll just skip seeing her boys. She honestly deserves to have those boys taken away for good. I don’t know any perfect parents. We could all use a little coaching and help from time to time. It’s an extremely demanding and difficult job, but I also don’t know ONE parent who wouldn’t sacrifice being told what to do in order to spend some time with their kids. Not even toofless meth-heads, crack whores or raging alcoholics show so little regard for their relationship with their children.
Here’s some heartfelt words of wisdom for you Brit.
Your kids are a reflection of you. They represent all the good and the bad that you have within you. If you can’t face your children, then what that really means if you are ashamed of yourself and too selfish, stubborn and stupid to do anything about it. May the Lord help you, because you are beyond any help from this world.
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“Not even toofless meth-heads, crack whores or raging alcoholics show so little regard for their relationship with their children.”
You’re absolutely right about this. As I commented on another Britney post, I used to have some substance abuse problems and hit a pretty low point at one time in my life. As drug addicts usually do, I went to jail. Everyone in jail tries to pick up a “hustle,” and mine was writing letters, since I was more literate than 99.9% of my fellow inmates (eh, probably 100% but let’s not discount the possibility of some idiot savant hiding out in isolation).
Anyway, I cannot tell you how many times the women in jail asked me to help them write letters to the judge so they could try and get their kids back, or at least see them. It was by far the most common request. These were crack whores, streetwalkers, homeless women, women on the very fringes of society. Yet they all wanted a chance to even just see their kids - maybe they knew they weren’t ready for custody, but by god they would have jumped through flaming hoops for a chance to take them to the park, with or without a social worker. These women were humble about it. They begged and pleaded in their letters to the judge. They loved their kids. They had regrets, and secretly cried about it at night in their bunks. I’m sure there’s hundreds of them sitting in jail right now, watching tv coverage of Britney’s seeming lack of concern and thinking, “If only I had that chance she does, the opportunity to do the right thing by my kids.”
Comment by Mitsu — October 8, 2007 @ 4:23 pm
That was a very insightful and interesting post. If this piece of gossip is true then she is seriously f*ed but I hesitate before I believe everything that is written. Truthfully, I think she was out till 5:00 am (documented by the papz) and was in no shape to see her kids. Not any better - but somehow I doubt it was the premeditated and willful act described above. Any way you look at it - she really needs SERIOUS intervention. The kids are better off w k-fed.
Comment by ebayer — October 8, 2007 @ 7:31 pm