Britney Has Lost All Grip On Reality, Claims Kevin
It would seem that Kevin Federline is living in fear of getting a call that Britney has killed herself, and taken the boys with her, according to girlfriend Nicole Narain:
Kevin Federline, who is battling for custody of their two boys, said: “Britney’s behaviour has already put our kids at risk and I can’t let things get any worse.
“She’s lost all grasp on reality and is dragging the children through hell. Her mood swings are now so wild that I live in fear of getting a call telling me that she has killed herself.
“I can’t allow her to have custody because I seriously believe she could harm our sons. I’ve shared her life and I know she’s capable of anything with pills and a few drinks inside her.”
Hey, it was a pretty slow celeb news weekend. From what I understand, NOTW is the British equivalent of the National Enquirer, so take that into consideration.
Yes, K-Fed has a girlfriend, and she’s talking. She tells us how Kevin catching Brit breastfeeding little Jayden after wandering around the house with a vodka and coke, and how that last straw effectively ended the marriage. She also spills on how Brit drives around in her car without locking them into their car seats (see the above photo) and leaves them both by and at the pool unsupervised. Nicole says:
“He never shouts and screams about Britney in front of me. He does speak openly about his concerns for his children though.” According to Nicole, Kevin is especially worried about the damage Britney’s lifestyle is doing to their sons.
She reveals: “I was with Kevin on Monday morning when his kids turned up after spending time with Britney. He was overjoyed to see them, but deeply concerned about what they’d been through.
“On Monday he was treating Jayden for pink eye (conjunctivitis), and was worried Britney was to blame. He told me if they had joint custody he’d need two days just to get the children settled down and calm again after their stint away with Britney. He says she keeps them up and has no fixed routine which makes them over-stressed, over-tired and desperate for attention.
“He has tried to get Britney to change her ways, but gets nowhere. He gets so upset when the kids are with her that he won’t switch on the TV as he knows there will be news footage of her with them in LA.
“He can’t bear to see them looking stressed, traumatised and disorientated as she carts them off on another jaunt around town, seemingly for no reason.
“That’s one of the key reasons why he went for custody in court.”
And here’s another shocker…seems that Britney hit on Nicole a few years back in a bathroom (what is with Brit and bathrooms…Freud would have a field day with that one):
Nicole, who met Kevin at a fashion party at Hollywood club Vice, said: “I told him Britney had once tried to kiss me. We met in the toilets of Beverly Hills restaurant Mr Chows.
“I was doing my make-up and I could feel someone staring at me. It was Britney, in a green dress and looking a bit spaced-out. She looked at me in a provocative way. I found it unnerving, but I smiled to be friendly.
“She then cosied alongside me by the mirror and asked to borrow my lip-gloss.
“I agreed, put some on my finger and let her rub it on. She rolled her eyes and giggled before suggestively rubbing it over her lips. It became clear she was flirting.
“She then asked for some more and kind of leant into me and glared intensely. I thought she was hoping to get me closer to her. When I told Kevin he nodded and said, ‘Knowing her, she probably was’.
“I was shocked that she’d try to pick up someone in a toilet. I presume she’s bisexual. I threw away the lip-gloss after that, thinking how tacky her behaviour was.”
And, of course, Nicole has nothing but glowing praise for K-Fed:
The former Playboy Playmate said: “He may have been a party animal in the past, but I haven’t seen him talk about or take drugs. He does like a bourbon and Coke, but he’ll have a couple of those and call it a night.
“He has his home and that’s where he spends most of his time now.” [...]
Nicole said: “I feel sorry for Britney. She has lost the love of a very caring, passionate and intelligent man.
“At the moment his priority is fighting for his children.”
Well, hmm. This is all very interesting and everything, but the timing is so perfect, coming out on the very weekend that Brit and K-Fed are fighting for custody of their boys, the results of which are due to be heard today or tomorrow. Isn’t it interesting that at a time when Britney is acting out and showing some of her worst behavior, this article should come out and paint Kevin in such a positive, glowing manner.
But, think about it…why is it that we don’t have photos of Kevin with the boys? Because he keeps his time with them behind closed doors, at home, instead of trotting them out to go thither and yon for no reason whatsoever? Brit is well-known for getting the boys in the car and just driving around aimlessly for a while. Mama’s gotta earn some money somehow, y’all.
And what is it with Hollywood paramours, anyway? Doesn’t anyone know how to keep their mouths shut? He presumably told his girlfriend these things in private conversations, so why run to the redtops and dish what she knows…or what she made up? Or could it be that it’s with Kevin’s blessing?
I have a feeling that this article is about 50/50. I think there’s enough truth in it to call it a duck, but I’m curious as to the veracity of some of the statements. A couple of things I found interesting…for one, Nicole is quoted as saying K-Fed said to Britney, “If you really wanna drink then make sure the baby gets bottled milk, not yours.” Wouldn’t he say “formula”, not “bottled milk”? Now of course, that could just be a British interpretation of what was said, but here’s one other thing:
“Two weeks later she filed for divorce. I only found out when I heard it as a news item on the radio. I felt she was just trying to teach me a lesson for telling her off about the breast-feeding incident. But when I called she kicked off another row and screamed, ‘You’re nothing without me’. I never wanted a divorce but now I knew there was no option.”
I always thought that Kevin found out about the divorce proceedings when he was taping a show, and the cameras caught him receiving the news via text message. All the news media touted this footage as the moment when Kevin got the divorce news. And it was pretty obvious from the video that he had just received some sort of huge bomb dropped on him.
All in all, I think this article is pretty suspect. I think there are a few grains of truth in it but it isn’t a complete truthful picture. And since the tabloids in Britain pay good money for stories like this, I think maybe there was a bit of incentive there to embellish the truth, particularly the attempted hookup in the bathroom. But I do agree that Britney could be capable of doing some sort of self-harm, and possibly hurting the boys in the process, either purposefully or inadvertently. Before anyone freaks out about that statement, when you give your life to drugs, they become center…not your family or kids or anything else. And I firmly believe that Brit is in no position right now to be with her kids. The best thing she could do for them is give them to Kevin until she gets herself straightened out. He’s no Man of the Year, but he seems to be stepping up to the plate as dad.
Don’t you love how, in the first photo, Sean looks like he can’t wait to grab hold of mommy’s ciggie?
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Blahhhh! this woman irritates the hell out of me. I saw this article over the weekend. What a piece of garbage. Man, if there were any inaccuracies in that story I would sue her butt. One of my biggest pet peeves in H-weird is that everyone wants to make a dime at someone’s expense. What happened to working for your own $? Did this chick even remotely consider the kids when she went blabbing to the press? There are so many articles floating around out there about what Britney Spears is and isn’t - but this one takes the cake. Is it ever appropriate for a new girlfriend or wife to get involved in the resulting slagging match during a custody battle? None of her knowledge comes first hand - with the exception that she thought that Britney was hitting on her in the bathroom because she asked to borrow lip gloss!? Please! It’s supposition. And to be frank, she’s not all that…dime store hooker comes to mind.
You know I have a theory about the Feder jerk. I think that he has known all along that Britney had a few loose cogs and used her problems to benefit professionally and monetarily. Neither Britney nor Kevin seem to consider the impact all of this is having on their kids. It sounds like (from all accounts) they should never have brought children into that mess. Has anyone seen Chaotic? Unfortunately I saw a few episodes (I am embarrassed to admit) and you could see this train wreck coming a mile away. I personally think he purposefully sent her over the edge.
Yuck, yuck, yuck. I especially love the part where Nicole raves about what a great team of help he has - nannies and housekeepers! What a great dad - hands on.
Comment by ebayer — October 29, 2007 @ 9:39 am
I too read this over the weekend, and I also noticed the use of “bottled milk” as well as “row” in the quotes. I think the British tabloids are pretty suspect in general, but there isn’t anything here I find hard to believe. It may be that they’re loose with the exact wording in quotes, and the content is largely true. That’s kind of my take on it, just from a gut feeling. Then again I don’t think the source is particularly trustworthy or unbiased. However, I can really see Britney doing all these things, it doesn’t take much stretch of the imagination at all.
The bottom line is, there had to be something really awful that came out in the court proceedings for those kids to have been taken away from their mother, and at such a young age. I think that whatever it is happened behind closed doors, in her home, and is probably pretty bad. Courts don’t take kids away from their mothers for nothing. Maybe some day we’ll know the true story.
Comment by Mitsu — October 29, 2007 @ 10:29 am
I concur with all three of your assessments. As k said, there are some serious inconsistencies in this story, but all in all, they are in line with the type of behavior we can and have expected from Brit over the last year.
I really feel sorry for those two little boys, they just don’t deserve this. Then again, lots of children around the world are mistreated and they don’t deserve it either.
This whole thing sucks.
Comment by D — October 29, 2007 @ 12:03 pm
It’s not that the stories are not believable - the truth will come out but until that point it’s all conjecture. She has been proven to be a continual and habitual drug and alcohol abuser - and that shows no sign of abating. I am sure this affected the lives of her children long before we heard about it and has everything to do with why she lost them. I just question the efficacy of statements made by someone that would sell their story to the News of the World. Especially when it involves the lives of the children of someone you claim to love. Yuck.
Say what you will about Britney but she doesn’t spill her guts to the tabs or anyone else for that matter. Despite her horrendous misuse of the papz she keeps her personal business personal. No vindictive statements made about Justin Timberlake when he pulled the cry me a river video, nothing about Kfed, her mom etc. I just think that the Narain interview was lame.
One day those poor boys will have to read stories like this. It’s all just so sad.
Comment by ebayer — October 29, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
some people just shouldn’t have kids:(
Comment by ebayer — October 29, 2007 @ 1:15 pm
I think a lot of what has happened here is conjecture, speculation, and hearsay, with a sprinkling of truth just to brown the top. And unless some completely impartial witness to both sides of the story comes forward at some point, I don’t think we’ll ever truly know. The bodyguard was as close as we’ll get for a while, I think. Say what you will about him, I think he was telling the truth. And a judge thought so too.
Sad as it is to say, I think the boys are better off with Kevin, even though he does have nannies and housekeepers and whatever. If I had a house that big, I’d have housekeepers too!
At least he isn’t trotting them out for paps to take photos of, and that says something (the obligatory photos of grandma Lynne pushing them around in their car stroller notwithstanding). They aren’t in a pap throng, being frightened and scared.
You can be a piece of manwhore and still be a good dad. I’ve seen it happen.
And let’s face it…she does show her lack of education and manners in interviews. I think she knows this and doesn’t do interviews. Plus she’s lost her support base that could help her through interviews…Matt Lauer anyone?
Comment by k — October 29, 2007 @ 2:56 pm
Yes they are probably better off with him - frighteningly he seems to be the better parent. But I honestly think that if Brit was together enough she would have been able to dig up tons of dirt re: his past, present and future activities. The guy was a drug dealer for a while:( And I would be willing to bet my last buck that he had/has a drug problem too. I think that he and the britster got to this ugly place together.
As for her interviewing skills - up until the matt lauer interview she was an articulate and charming young girl. Take a look at her Diane Sawyer, Ellen and Rosie tapes. The difference is just incredible. She is a walking and talking example of celebrity gone wrong.
Comment by ebayer — October 29, 2007 @ 3:39 pm
I noticed it, but it’s mostly covered, so I didn’t think it worth mentioning. Must there be juvenile hooting when someone shows half a nipple? I’d hoped we were a bit more adult than that. And “What kind of girl would pose for a picture like that”? Perhaps one that would conveniently leak half-truths to the news at such a crucial time? I used that photo for a reason.
And if you read what I wrote, you’ll see that I have said that most of what was written I don’t believe. I said that I felt it was embellished and parts were totally false.
Comment by k — October 29, 2007 @ 4:05 pm
I think she became famous for a playboy spread and sleeping colin farrell (sp?) so that kinda says it all.
Comment by ebayer — October 29, 2007 @ 6:09 pm
This is nauseating. Why are people so damn STUPID? I don’t understand it. She has NOT been proven to be an alcoholic or drug user, on the contrary, the only evidence of anything like that comes from the fat fired bodyguard. The judge ordered monitored visitation and drug tests in order to try to prove the matter one way or the other! But you all go on and on like, “oh, yes so believable”. Are you serious? This ugly prostitute skank is as much a piece of trash as Kevin. Why anyone would believe a word of this trash is beyond me. Kevin was dumped by Britney because he was never home while she was pregnant and cheated on her and blew her money. He cares nothing about his children, if he did he’d visit his first two, don’t you think?
And people wonder why the woman is seriously depressed!! Would you not be as well? She has the right to be left in peace to overcome that depression. This trash is so low. I hope Kevin and his bottom-feeding skank get what they deserve.
Comment by Heather — October 29, 2007 @ 7:57 pm
Well, #11, first of all Kevin DOES visit his first two children. In fact he has them over all the time. Shar Jackson herself has said over and over that he is a great father to their children and loves to have them at his house.
Secondly, I DID say that I did NOT think that everything this woman said was TRUE…but I did say it was plausible. All you have to do is look at her actions over the past few years and you can see what we’re talking about. And as far as the bodyguard, a judge thought him very credible. Guess you’re smarter than the judge?
I’m not saying Kevin is a prince of a guy. I even said so in the article. But he IS proving himself to be the better parent and the more STABLE of the two. He shows up for court dressed in appropriate attire, is respectful to the judge, does what he is told, complies with the orders…compare that to Brit, and you tell me.
He may be a man-whore but he is a good dad. The two can be exclusive of each other, you know. Personally I think he’s a jerk, but even jerks can be good parents. Even if all he does is keep the kids out of the pap’s cameras, he’s already light-years ahead of Brit in the parenting department.
And as far as leaving Brit alone to get over her so-called “depression”? Yeah, worked great thus far. The problem is that too many people ARE leaving her alone, to run amok in her drug-induced haze. Somebody needs to step up to the plate and perform an intervention and fast. Girl isn’t depressed, she’s mentally ill. Depression IS a form of mental illness but this goes far, far deeper than that. She needs intensive help and fast.
Gah, that litmus test for reading here looks better and better all the time. Try reading what was actually written instead of what you think you see. Why are people so stupid? I ask myself that all the time.
Comment by k — October 29, 2007 @ 8:05 pm
My guess is that people are stupid because their parents never showed them how NOT to be stupid. I have an 8 year old and I’m constantly reminding her about consequences, about being responsible and about making the right choices.
Of course, after a certain age they’re free to make their own decisions, right or wrong. My feeling is, though, that if they have a good basis to begin with, they will probably make more good decisions than bad ones.
I just wonder where those kids will be in 15 years.
Comment by crazymom — October 30, 2007 @ 10:39 am