get a hobby dear…or a life?

Brad Pitt was a MARRIED MAN when he met Miss Jolie on the set of M&MS and he should have kept his cojones holstered out of respect for his WIFE and out of adherence to the VOWS he took with Ms. Aniston – until and unless they were fully divorced. Period.

As to their current status as some kind of half-assed saintly couple – I don’t buy it, I have never bought it and there isn’t enough shucking and jiving on earth to convince me otherwise. These two are a pair of self-indulgent losers and I pity those 6 kids.

How those two managed to pull off adultery and come out the other side looking like the Saviors of Mankind will always be a mystery for me.

You know, I realize that one of the commands given by God to us was to go forth and populate the earth. The Bible also teaches us that children are a blessing. I don’t think you need to read, or even believe, the Bible to realize that.

But if #2 wants to take that tack and argue Scripture, Paul also talks in the New Testament that if one is unmarried (and, in that time frame, that would mean childless), that it is better that they stay that way, so as to more effectively minister and evangelize. After all, if one has children and/or a spouse, one’s first attention should be towards that spouse and those children. But if one is unmarried, they have more attention to give towards spreading the Gospel. Even taking it out of the context of Scripture, it would seem that those who do NOT have children are not as selfish as it might seem…sometimes, having children is a VERY selfish act, if those children are conceived for the wrong reasons. And let’s face it, when you don’t have kids to worry about you DO have more time and energy to devote to charitable acts. It’s harder with kids, especially young kids, and most of us don’t have a team of nannies at our disposal so we can jet off to Africa or Vietnam or wherever.

So no…I don’t believe I am a walking uterus, and I don’t believe that my decision to stop at two kids is selfish, because I know I could not take care of more than two. And if I had chose to not have kids and devote my time elsewhere, that would also not have been selfish, had my husband and I both agreed. A marriage where two people are in agreement concerning important decisions like having or not having kids is NOT sterile, and can in fact be fruitful. However, Brad and Jen should have hammered out the whole kid thing before getting married…but then again, Brad tends to mirror the stronger personality in his life, so when he got around Angelina all of a sudden he wanted kids. Go figgure.

Oh, one more thing…bad people can do good things. Angelina Jolie does do some good works, although I do question her motives. However, that does not make her a good person.

K, I love you and the writing is brilliant. No matter how much I try to like Angelina Jolie, I just cannot. I give my time and money to charities, I am spending years and years in college and I am in hundred of thousands in debts from college loan and no one praises women like me, who are going to work in non-profits and public service. I give more than Angelina, much more, based on my income. And I never, never even considered looking at other women’s boyfriends as a potential mate, let alone destroying a family. And so are millions of other people just like me, yet Angelina is suddenly Santa Angelina and Brad is the king of Gods. They lie and lie and all they receive is praise and yet there is sth so evil and manipulative about Angelina that even if she adopts all the millions of children that are orphans, that will still not change my mind.

Because, of course, the only way my common sense circuit kicked in was because I was cheated on. Absolutely. It has nothing to do with the fact that I can look at a situation and see what’s going on with my own eyeballs. Oh no. Why, that’s too easy!

Your condemnation of women who don’t have children is disgusting. Ever hear of the Westboro Baptist Church? Why don’t you google it, I think you’d fit right in. You seem pretty high up on the ‘religious whack-job” scale.